Treating Each Other With Respect

[GrimGriz]

What does it say about cC as a community when members say stuff like:

a 12 year old that has a sensitivity problem when people talk about him having a tight vagina unlike other fat little boys his age... idk I'm just sick of it and his personal beef with me because "i have a big ego" what a fucking little girl... hey blue being an ass with your admin when u cannot back it up because your afraid you will get made fun of is weak. your a little fat fuck that knows he has nothing to offer the world other then eating all the pudding cups around him and getting a few pant sizes bigger by the end of the day...

about each other publicly?

[arkawn]

because they feel driven to do so after being antagonized?

i think this applies to pretty much everyone ever in anything

[Rage Quit Master]

eh respect doesnt mean anything to these guys i dislike some members as gypsy (kinda) doghouse and hellfire

[arkawn]

wtf


who has problems with doghouse that the craziest thing ive ever heard

i like doghouse eh doesnt have beef with anyone and doesnt afraid of anything

[Wamp Rats]

I dislike doghouse because he's a fucking prick when i come on the server for no fuckin reason

[Original]

Kindof harsh words imo. But I wasn't there, I don't know what lead up to that.

I don't play on the fun server much either and I hear people complain about admin abuse there, but that's part of that server too so...

I have nothing useful to contribute.

Play nice boyz (and gurlz)

[LilSam__U]

wtf


who has problems with doghouse that the craziest thing ive ever heard

i like doghouse eh doesnt have beef with anyone and doesnt afraid of anything

yah idk anii 1 from cc tht has a problem with doghouse...i dont

[Divine Fate]

Everybody has their issues. Respect is overcoming your feelings to do what's right.

[arkawn]

I dislike doghouse because he's a fucking prick when i come on the server for no fuckin reason

yeah but you bitch like an irritating girl


i dont mean that to be offensive its just i dont know any other way to put it

[Riftoff]

I guess this (an amplification of John Gabriel's Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory) is a side effect from casting nets out in the kiddie pool.

A reminder for you all:

[Beetle]

Why is that referring to UT if it seems to be on a TF2 chalkboard?

Anyway, I'm not sure what this thread is about, but if doghouse said something mean then you must have really pissed him off, because I've never seen him say a mean thing since I've been here.

[Liquid Death]

I've never seen him say a mean thing since I've been here.

Me neither, well not anything too mean.

[Ex-PFC Wintergreen]

No respect, No respect.

[D34THSPAWN]

I have one thing to say first...its just a game...that being said this is a community...a fairly close knit one at that...however people who are "together" as much as we are dont go very often without arguments...and what we need to do is find a solution and move past it...there will aqlways be bumps int he road

[HurTmePlentY]

ya know. if you have beef with someone talk to them personally via steam or any other means. dont be posting these messes for everyone on the interwebs to see. settle your differences and get over it. damn.

[captainAngry]

Just remember, whenever you talk about someone we learn more about you then we do about the person you are talking about.

People shouldn't be airing their anger in public. If you are mad at someone, talk to them or tell an admin. Opening a public discussion about it will only make people turn against YOU.

[Plastic Jesus]

Word to your mother captain.

I actually had someone message me in steam about how to deal with someone's hate speach towards them. I told him that the best way to deal with it is ignore it. If you get involved with it, it only makes you look like just as much of a jerk. Honestly, on my part, I can't deal with stupidity . It gets to me... a lot. I'm betting that if I spoke my mind about this completely, I would be hunted down by the government.

[Rage Quit Master]

captain its hard to reason with the people you dislike because it will end in unreasonable conflict and the next thing you know u just got pwned in a conversation

[steiner949]

The sad but honest truth is that most people thrive on conflict. Therapists and psychologists say that the only way to prevent a confrontation is to not yell, keep an even tone and avoid tag words like: dumb, or stupid. Unfortunately, this only works if the person you are talking with is normal. For those that thrive on conflict, it wells up anger and other harsh feelings and then that is all released on those that don't deserve it. I know I have witnessed many cases where people will take their aggressions out on people that are undeserving, but the only reason that they do it, is so that they can provoke some form of response so they can continue the string of conflict that rules their lives. All in all, what I have to say is that if someone is consistently being abrasive, or confrontational, just leave them be. Any responses will only fuel the desire to rage and cause chaos among the group. Just like when you have an annoying child, the best course of action is to ignore the actions(to an extent) and they will eventually tire and move on to something else. I love this community, I have since it was still SM and I was but a regular on the servers, but I see so much confrontation lately that it sets back everything that I had grown to love about it. Now I am not saying that I am going to leave, but just try to remember the golden days when we all got along.

[captainAngry]

On that note: Locked.