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Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 02 Jul 2009, 08:11
by Sastora
Hey guys... I just wanted you all to know I still wont be on maybe very much.
OR I might be the complete opposite and play non stop but that doesn't seem to likely.
The reason being is that I just found out today that my Mom took her life...
Just thought you all should know.
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 02 Jul 2009, 08:13
by JG215
I'm really sorry Sastora, hang in there
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 02 Jul 2009, 09:00
by RandomGuy
Oh my god. Im so sorry.
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 02 Jul 2009, 09:02
by Original
That's terrible news Sas, sorry to hear it.
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 02 Jul 2009, 09:38
by Ghost
Sorry sas.
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 02 Jul 2009, 11:53
by PhrozenFlame
D: D: D:
(Feels bad for sastora)
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 03 Jul 2009, 10:01
by AgeNt_
ouch.
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 03 Jul 2009, 06:33
by Sastora
So they said that they found her in the shower, it was over flowed and the curtain was down.
I don't know what everything means.
I don't know what to do, I'm just in shock and I don't think I'm grasping the fact that she wont ever be around again...
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 05 Jul 2009, 12:41
by Sastora
Okay so I posted a bulletin on myspace saying how everything is being controlled by Jimmie (Who was married to my mom) and how much I think that its bull crap. Well he logs onto my moms myspace or his cousin person and kinda chews me out calling my immature and saying that I never respected my mother and that I need to 'grow up' real fast. I mean honestly how dare someone log onto my mothers myspace and yell at me for how I feel.
I went on hers changed pw for both her myspace and her yahoo account but my family says they don't know who changed it because, oh this is funny, because Jimmie said that if I don't tell him the pw or he doesn't get the pws to the stuff then I'M not allowed at my OWN mothers funeral.
I mean crazy to be kicked out of my moms funeral, how cruel is that. But that is were my grandparents drew the line and said screw him and they are getting a lawyer.
I just can't believe how crazy this is and how everything seems to fall apart...
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 05 Jul 2009, 01:19
by bluephyr
It sounds like I've heard this all before. And what I can tell you is that some things need to be resolved using the law, and this is definitely one of those things.
Find plenty of comfort in other relatives, and fast.
But I'd really like to know what motive this "Jimmie" had to say and do such things.
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 05 Jul 2009, 02:05
by JG215
Sastora, getting the law involved is usally for last options, but I think you need to get the law involved. This happened to me when my grandma died, my bruthers uncle did sum bad things similar. But you NEED to contact a lawer, what he's doing is terrible to you. I think you should be involved, especially because of the whole kicking you out of your moms funeral.
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 05 Jul 2009, 10:47
by Sastora
Yeah, she is going on Monday to see what rights she has.
We are going to do what ever we can.
I also found out that my mom was living a double life, its really hard to understand or picture is but in last year she seemed to be a different person, even within the last months but we still should be the ones to bury her and he is all pissy because we aren't getting him a double plot so that oneday he can be buried there too.
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 05 Jul 2009, 04:35
by LilSam__U
im so sorry sas
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 06 Jul 2009, 09:06
by captainAngry
I'm sorry to hear that sas. Family stuff is always fucked up and I know you have had issues with this asshole Jimmie before.
If I lived in FL I would go to his house and kick his ass on your behalf.
No matter what has happened in the past, there is nothing that should keep you from paying your final respects for your mother. I wish you the best of luck and I am sorry to hear about your mother.
-Captain
Re: Not sure how much I'll be on.... :C
Posted: 06 Jul 2009, 02:54
by PhrozenFlame
I really can't do anything but give hopefully comforting words Sas. I've never been in this kind of situation before so I don't know what's really going on. It mainly sounds like he's trying to take advantage of your mom's death to get a bigger picture in your family.(Bastard thing to do but things like this happen sometimes.
You never really notice it until it happens to you.) I can't stand a lot of things. I really can't help you too much. Enjoy hopefuly comforting words I guess?